welcome to
getting kinky
-london
An introduction to impact play
Impact play is a practice of sensation, presence, rhythm, power, and trust. It is not about harm. It is about intentional contact, clear consent, and learning how to work with intensity in a grounded, connected way.
This workshop offers a queer, sex-positive introduction to impact play that centers communication, nervous system awareness, and embodied choice. We will focus on skill, attunement, and agency.
Impact can be playful, pleasurable, meditative, cathartic, erotic, connective. This space is about learning how to engage it consciously.
This workshop is designed to meet you where you are while building strong foundations for safe, pleasurable, and expansive play.
WHat to expect
A grounded approach to impact play
An environment where curiosity, slowness, and choice are prioritized
a Queer event for all women, NB, intersex, trans and gender non-conforming humans
Games & Connection
An inclusive, sx+ environment grounded in consent, where exploration and expression is WELCOME
The workshop is divided into two parts:
Part 1: Guided Learning & Demonstration
Part 2: free flow
During the guided part we will explore
Consent frameworks for impact play: Negotiation, boundaries, and aftercare
Different types of impact and sensation
Reading bodies, breath, and nervous system responses
Giving and receiving impact with presence
Non-verbal communication and stop systems
Emotional release, grounding, and integration
No prior experience is needed. You are welcome to come as a giver, receiver, switch, or observer.
WHat to Bring
Comfortable clothing you can move in and helps you feel good. that can mean something that makes you feel confident, powerful, soft, comfy - or all of the above
Food for dinner to share with the group
any props you might want to play with
This space is held with care, intention, and playfulness. Everything we offer is an invitation. You are always welcome to witness, opt out, or rest in the chill space. Your "no" is always welcome, as well as you f*ck yes!We can’t wait to explore deeper with you 
event details:
Date & Time: 5th february- 5:30pm - 10:30pm
Audience: all women, NB, intersex, trans and gender non-conforming humans.
🛑 Cis het men are asked not to attend.
Solo or Partnered: singles, partners, groups welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
Location: East London, venue address sent out closer to the time
Access: Unfortunately The venue is not wheelchair accessible this time
Cancellation policy: Please note that all ticket sales are final. We do not offer refunds or exchanges unless the event is cancelled or rescheduled. By purchasing a ticket, you agree to this policy.